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Adulting 101

You’re growing up.

Here are 50 things about your DAILY LIFE and CAREER that are important for you to know and practice.

Daily Life & Career Advice For My Teenager

My daughter just turned 18.  A few weeks before her birthday, she said to me, “I’m turning 18 and there is so much that I don’t know!  Mom – help!!!  What do I need to know????”  (For those of you that know my daughter, her question makes perfect sense!  She craves order, organization, and rules).

So, I put a call out to my friends.  What piece of advice would you go back and give your 18-year old self? 

 

They did not disappoint.  My friends came up with fabulous ideas.  255 ideas to be exact!!!

I decided to divide these 255 ideas into 4 categories.  Today’s post contains the top 50 pieces of daily life & career advice for teenagers. 

Adulting 101 – Daily Life & Careers

Daily Life

  • Always watch your word and actions. There is always someone around with a camera who won’t hesitate to post what you say and do for the world to see.
  • Go to the dentist for a check up and cleaning every year.
  • Get an annual physical exam.
  • Find a good mechanic that you can trust.
  • Learn how to drive a car with manual transmission.
  • Try and make extras when cooking. Freeze the extras for days when you’re too busy to cook.
  • Clean up after yourself.
  • Floss every night.
  • Spend the extra money to get a good hairstylist.
  • Get fitted for a good bra and pay the extra. It’s worth it.
  • Don’t go cheap on make-up and hair products.
  • Don’t ever put anything on social media that you might one day regret.
  • Learn how to pull and back up a trailer.
  • Find a church. Even if you don’t attend on a regular basis, know that there is somewhere you can turn to for help and guidance.
  • Once a month, buy yourself flowers. Buy extra flowers and give them to someone on your way out of the store.
  • Collect and save your favorite recipes from your Mom and your Grandma. One day, you will cherish these.
  • Always have your computer backed up.
  • Learn how to change your oil and a flat tire.
  • Never advertise on social media that you are away on vacation and that your home is empty.
  • Keep all of your passwords private.
  • Find a cause that you believe in. Support it.
  • Anytime you have to sign a contract, read it and be sure that you understand it.
  • Come election time, know the candidates.  Vote!
  • When your alarm goes off in the morning, get up. Don’t get in the habit of hitting the snooze button.
  • When in doubt, call home!

Careers

  • Be what YOU want to be, not what others say you’d be good at.
  • Work at a job that you love and will accept less money for as opposed to a job that you hate but pays better.
  • Explore all of your options in terms of a job.
  • Get an education, get a job, and support yourself.
  • Don’t be afraid to take that fork in the road when it comes to your career.
  • One bad day at work doesn’t mean that you should quit. Everyone has bad days at work.
  • Never take your job for granted. Many would love to be doing what you do.
  • When you land in a job, explore. What other opportunities exist for you within the company?
  • Leave your work at work.
  • Give kudos to your colleagues for a job well done.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for a raise or more perks if you deserve them.
  • Make as many professional/business connections as you can.
  • Always keep your resume updated.
  • Collect letters of reference from everyone.
  • Just because it’s a good job, doesn’t mean it’s the job. If you’re not happy, start looking for something else or take some classes.
  • Don’t quit one job without having another.
  • Never just quit a job on the spot. Always give your employer two-weeks notice.
  • If you become the boss, never belittle your employees.
  • Do more than is expected.
  • Don’t let anyone else take credit for the work that you do. If it’s your idea/your work, claim it.
  • When one of your colleagues starts to gossip about another, leave.
  • Behave yourself at office/work parties. Remember, your boss is there.
  • If you have a new idea for how to improve things at work, go directly to your boss/supervisor.
  • Arrive early and stay late – but not in excess.
  • Always help the new person at work learn the ropes.